" To be honest, Lin, I don’t think the divorce is that hard, but you’ve made it hard for yourself.” Lin sighed again. “I really don’t know what to do.” “You’ve been shilly-shallying and made yourself miserable. I’ve handled hundreds of men for many years. I know your type. You’re always afraid that people will call you a bad man. You strive to have a good heart. But what is a heart? Just a chunk of flesh that a dog can eat. Your problem originates in your own character, and you must first change yourself. "

― Ha Jin , Waiting