" If we look at tropes and stereotypes, it becomes clear who is allowed what emotions. There is no stereotype of the “angry white woman” but there is one for both the “angry Black woman” and “the angry trans person” (especially trans women). For some people, such as Black trans women of color, displaying appropriate emotional reactions can be lethal. "

― Meg-John Barker , Life Isn't Binary: On Being Both, Beyond, and In-Between