" Almost everything is tuned to keeping the status quo shuffling along. When your life really takes off, some of your friends are very likely to perceive this as a threat because you, not they, are stepping out into a new future. They will cajole you to keep within conventional bounds, to be reasonable, to do the “right” thing. "

― , The Pathfinder: How to Choose or Change Your Career for a Lifetime of Satisfaction and Success