" We were wrong, I thought to myself. I knew it in my gut, but I didn’t know how to process it. In a community that denied personal experience as a source of wisdom, we were always told, “Don’t let your experience influence your theology; don’t trust your feelings.” I didn’t know how to tease out the dogmatic teachings from the truth, but I was very clear on one thing: I refused to believe God was “glorified” by the ruin of queer kids’ lives. "
― , Outlove: A Queer Christian Survival Story