" Chocolate or a good man can instigate your heart’s surrender, but full-bodied pleasure and overflowing love—opening until you are exposed fully to God as love’s bliss—is the only way to live true to your deepest desire, with or without a trustable lover or a tasty dessert. "

― David Deida , Dear Lover: A Woman's Guide to Men, Sex, and Love's Deepest Bliss