" We know that God’s will is to make us more Christlike (1 Thess. 4:3). But apart from this goal, we can rarely (if ever) know God’s desires precisely. Were we with Joseph, we would have prayed for his rescue from his brothers’ plot to sell him into slavery. Had we been with Mary and Martha, we would have asked God not to let Lazarus die the first time. Were we at the foot of the cross, we would have cried for God to send his angels to the rescue. In each case, the Lord knew better how to accomplish his will for his ultimate purposes. "

― Bryan Chapell , Praying Backwards: Transform Your Prayer Life by Beginning in Jesus' Name