" Remember this: a good man can’t be kept and the wrong man isn’t worth keeping. So then you may ask, What does a woman have to do to keep a man? The answer is this...let go of the idea that it is within your power to keep him and focus more on finding a good man that loves and respects you enough to want to stay; therein lies the secret. You see, you could be doing all the right things, but if that man doesn’t love, respect and appreciate you and the things you do, it will all be for nothing. "