" No,” Jack said after a moment. “That is not how it works. With all due respect,” he remarked, managing to
convey no respect whatsoever, “you wouldn’t know whether or not he was decent. You couldn’t, in fact. You
play cards with him, maybe drink or make idle conversation. He has no power over you to be anything other
than decent. It’s his wife and servants who know the truth. You would likely have thought your brother-in-law a
decent fellow had you met him at your club. "

― Cat Sebastian , The Soldier's Scoundrel (The Turners #1)