" That’s what you do when you go looking for a husband. You don’t look at what he looks like or what he’s got. You look at the man on the inside. Is he strong or weak? Weak means you could run over him, and no woman wants a weakling. Is he strong enough to make you feel safe and secure in his arms without taking who you are away from you? Are you going to have to fight with him occasionally? Does he make you feel all tingly and alive? Does he make your nerves stand on end just by touching your arm in a café? "
― Carolyn Brown , To Dream (The Broken Roads #4)