" it was the nature of being a person, and everything they did—every single thing, in school or at home, with others or alone, conscious or unconscious, meaningful or nonsensical, every single thing—was geared toward discovering what exactly it meant to be a person. The meaning would always elude them, because elusiveness was in fact its very heart. "

― Jeff Hobbs , Show Them You're Good: A Portrait of Boys in the City of Angels the Year before College