" The more insoluble and heartbreaking a problem, the smaller the action that is called for in any particular moment. We are slow to grasp this. Great suffering produces great anger, great fear, and great despair in part because no great solution is possible. But small kindnesses matter a great deal. "

― David A. Powlison , Good and Angry: Redeeming Anger, Irritation, Complaining, and Bitterness