" Sometimes when a man feels bad about himself, he doesn’t want to be with a woman who looks at him with nothing but love. Instead he wants to lie on top of a woman who knows how nasty and shallow and faithless he can be … a woman who doesn’t put him on a pedestal or expect him to be a knight in shining armour … a woman who’s happy with the worst he can be. "

― Michael Robotham , The Wreckage (Joseph O'Loughlin, #5)