" Why do men like a woman to give up control? What is it about the lack of control that men like so much?” “It’s not that they like a lack of control. But a man wants a woman who gives herself to him. He wants a woman to melt into his arms, to get aroused from a kiss on the back of her neck, "

― Lauren Blakely , A Night of Seduction (Seductive Nights, #4.5)