" I want to ask you, as clearly as I can, to bear with patience with all that is unresolved in your heart, and to try to love the questions themselves … Don't dig for answers that can't be given you yet: you cannot live them now. For everything must be lived. Live the questions now, then perhaps then, someday, you will gradually, without noticing, live into the answer. —RAINER MARIA RILKE "

― Elena Aguilar , Coaching for Equity: Conversations That Change Practice