" You can do a lot of things I can’t fully understand. But if the recent events in my life have taught me anything at all, it’s that you can’t change who someone is.” “Are you saying people can’t change?” “Not at all. I’m saying I can’t change you, or Jarrod, or my father, or anyone else. People must change themselves—if they want to. Just as only I can change myself. "

― David Estes , Dragonfall (The Kingfall Histories Book 2)