" We don’t always have the power to change our circumstances, but we can change how we feel about them. Happiness is a feeling, not a destination. If you rely on a circumstance or outcome to be happy, then that dependence will only grow into an addiction. You’ll be climbing a mountain without a peak, feeling more and more hollow the higher you get. "

― Humble the Poet , Unlearn: 101 Simple Truths for a Better Life