QUOTE : You're lucky to have within your grasp something that everyone envies. You can't act as though that didn't exist, as though it wasn't part of you. Yes, writing is a weapon and that's all to the good. Your family created the writer you've become. They created a monster - forgive me - and the monster has found a way to make her cries heard. What do you think writers are made of? look at yourself! Look around! You writers are the product of shame, pain, secrets, collapse. You come from the dark, nameless places, or you've been through those places. You're all survivors in your own way, each one of you as much as all the others. That doesn't give you unlimited rights. But it entitles you to write, believe me, even if that makes waves.