" Alanis Morissette: “You live, you learn. You love, you learn. You cry, you learn. You lose, you learn.” I think there’s something pretty comforting in knowing that even the biggest mistakes I’m inevitably going to make will turn me into who I’ll be at thirty. "

― Pamela Redmond Satran , 30 Things Every Woman Should Have and Should Know by the Time She's 30