" One afternoon I opened an email from her that included a passage from the work of Pema Chodron, a Buddhist teacher and writer whom I had long admired. "To be fully alive, fully human, and completely awake is to be continually thrown out of the nest. To live fully is to be always in no-man's-land. "

― Dani Shapiro , Inheritance: A Memoir of Genealogy, Paternity, and Love