" Pain is always there to serve a purpose," Jaya says, "to teach us something, whether it's to not reach into a hot oven or to not fall in love with the wrong person." Karina looks up at her with startled eyes, but of course there's love involved here. What else could cause such pain? "And once we've learned what we're meant to learn," Jaya continues, "we are better than before. The wounds will heal." She lightly touches Karina's arm. "And the pain inside will help you grow. "

― Shilpi Somaya Gowda , The Shape of Family