" But — and here is the crucial point — it was difficult to rebut that anti-gay slur [i.e., that the abuse crisis in the Catholic church is about pedophilia by gay priests] for the scapegoating it was, precisely because of that cloak of denial around the Church’s broader sexual dishonesty. Gay priests, too, were forced to live a lie. "

― James Carroll , The Truth at the Heart of the Lie: How the Catholic Church Lost Its Soul