" Do we want to raise disciples? Then pay equal attention to what isn’t working as much as what is. Treat their questions and concerns with respect, because in my opinion, they have a decent pulse on cultural Christianity. Rather than starting with, “You are young and clueless,” maybe we say, “Tell me what you see and what concerns you. What draws you to church? What pushes you away? What do your friends say?” Humility attracts the next generation as easily as arrogance alienates them. This is so crucial. If we dismiss this conversation, we dismiss them from the church. "

― Jen Hatmaker , For the Love: Fighting for Grace in a World of Impossible Standards