" Piece of advice number one: there is no such thing as leagues when it comes to dating.
There is only compatibility.
Would you say you are compatible with this guy?
Yes, I mean we’ve talked and we always seem to get along.
He gave a curt head-shake, That’s not compatibility.
You get along with the mailman, compatibility is connection emotional, intellectual, physical and sexual.
Got any of that with the object of your affection? "

― Kate Meader , Foreplayer (Rookie Rebels, #4)