" Until I realized that I was asking myself the wrong question. I was asking myself, Why me?” She gradually realized that she could ask a different question: What do I do as a result of having had that experience? “That was the big shift: What now?” She became almost breathless as she tried to explain the changes she experienced once she had shifted from “Why me?” to “What now? "

― Laurence Gonzales , Flight 232: A Story of Disaster and Survival