" With a variety of people, every child naturally, implicitly, asks again and again: “Do you see me?” “Do you care about me?” “Will you treat me well?” The psyche is built from the bottom up, from the residues of countless experiences, and the foundational layers were laid down in the first years of your life. "

― Rick Hanson , Resilient: How to Grow an Unshakable Core of Calm, Strength, and Happiness