" When we cannot connect something we see or hear to something we have seen or heard before, or when the words will simply not do an experience justice, "trauma mocks language," says feminists scholar Leigh Gilmore, "and it confronts it with its insufficiency." We literally do not know how to think about it. The unlinkable is unthinkable. "

― Meg Jay , Supernormal: The Untold Story of Adversity and Resilience