" The commentator William Barclay did a good job giving us the weight of the word. He wrote, “The Greek word for to mourn, used here, is the strongest word for mourning in the Greek language.… It is defined as the kind of grief which takes such a hold that it cannot be hidden. It is not only the sorrow which brings an ache to the heart; it is the sorrow which brings the unrestrainable tears to the eyes.”1 Sure. But where is the blessing in that? "

― Kyle Idleman , The End of Me: Where Real Life in the Upside-Down Ways of Jesus Begins