" Sometimes it takes having differences, not understanding one another, and even being a little bit irritated by and bored with one another, to remind us that the church is a family and not a club. At its best, this family dynamic of the local church functions as God’s fertile soil for growing us beyond mere tolerance toward true expressions of love and unity. "

― Scott Sauls , Jesus Outside the Lines: A Way Forward for Those Who Are Tired of Taking Sides