" Almost always, communication tends to be most difficult precisely when it’s most important. As the relationship coach Marcia Baczynski has put it, “If you’re afraid to say it, that means you need to say it.” When we are feeling most raw, most vulnerable, most scared of opening up, those are the times we most need to open up. "

― Franklin Veaux , More Than Two: A Practical Guide to Ethical Polyamory