" you get one chance at this—literally only one chance at this life—and you have no idea when your chance might be over. You cannot waste it living only for everyone else. I don’t mean that you should be wholly selfish. I don’t mean that you should assume life is only about you and what makes you happy. Part of being in a family or a relationship or a community means showing up for others. "

― Rachel Hollis , Girl, Stop Apologizing: A Shame-Free Plan for Embracing and Achieving Your Goals