" It wasn’t until I had lost everything I thought I wanted that I realized being an adult wasn’t about being “normal,” or having a life that seems enviable to people from the outside. Being a fulfilled and successful adult has required accepting that I do have an inner child who was hurt and traumatized. It’s my job as an adult to nurture him, alongside all the other parts of me that make me who I am. "
― Jonathan Van Ness , Over the Top: A Raw Journey to Self-Love