" Imagine what it must be like for teenagers who don't feel they have room to breathe in their own homes. If you are a parent reading this book, you care about your child. If she is quirky, unusual, or nonconformist, ask yourself whether you are doing everything you can to nurture her unusual interests, style, or skills, or whether instead you are directly or subtly pushing her to hide them. "

― Alexandra Robbins , The Geeks Shall Inherit the Earth: Popularity, Quirk Theory and Why Outsiders Thrive After High School