" You’ll be able to spot people who are becoming love because they want to build kingdoms, not castles. They fill their lives with people who don’t look like them or act like them or even believe the same things as them. They treat them with love and respect and are more eager to learn from them than presume they have something to teach. "

― Bob Goff , Everybody, Always: Becoming Love in a World Full of Setbacks and Difficult People