" sigh, for her returning life was a tonic to his soul. Whatever she suffered, whatever loss came to her, she would throw it off, for it was not in her nature to go under. Although she was the woman and he a fierce and sometimes arrogant man, hers was the stronger nature because the more pliant. That did not mean that she did not feel Julia’s death as deeply and as bitterly, but he saw that she would recover first. "
― Winston Graham , Demelza (Poldark, #2)