" There’s nothing wrong with your life because sometimes you feel lost or incomplete; this means you’re “normal,” growing, and exactly where you “should be” and all is well. You’re not handicapped by your challenges and desires but blessed by them, even if they include missing a dearly beloved who was “ready” before you … you are blessed especially when you miss such a person, for the love you knew and still know. "

― Mike Dooley , The Top Ten Things Dead People Want to Tell YOU