" I wanted more than anything to be something I will never be - feminine, and feminine in the worst way. Submissive. Dependent. Soft spoken. Coquettish. I was no good at all at any of it, no good at being a girl; on the other hand, I am not half bad at being a woman. "

― Nora Ephron , Crazy Salad and Scribble Scribble: Some Things About Women and Notes on Media