" We just have to remember that where we pay attention matters more than we know. Our minds and hearts are like dry sponges. What we focus on is what will soak in and saturate us. If it is something foolish, we will make foolish decisions. If it is wise, we will make wise decisions. "

― Lysa TerKeurst , Uninvited: Living Loved When You Feel Less Than, Left Out, and Lonely