" When you focus on other people’s shortcomings, they lose confidence in their abilities. But if you focus on their hard work and successes, you produce a sustainable increase in their self-confidence. What’s more, researchers have discovered that the earlier in life you focus on a person’s daily successes, the greater the gains over time. "

― Tom Rath , Are You Fully Charged?: The 3 Keys to Energizing Your Work and Life