" When people die, we honor and celebrate the best parts of their character. Love, sacrifice, loyalty to family and friends, humility, joy, compassion. All of which required their denial of fleshly desires. So while our culture celebrates the gospel of self-actualization, the type of self you actualize into is still paramount. "

― John Mark Comer , Live No Lies: Recognize and Resist the Three Enemies That Sabotage Your Peace