" Always be a lady: “That meant always conduct yourself civilly, don’t let emotions like anger or envy get in your way. . . . Don’t snap back in anger. Anger, resentment, indulgence in recriminations waste time and sap energy.” “Hold fast to your convictions and your self-respect.” Last but definitely not least: always be independent. "

― Irin Carmon , Notorious RBG: The Life and Times of Ruth Bader Ginsburg