" If you're a resister, what you most need is what you least want: another challenge. Another open door. Here are some suggestions for you: Fail at something...Try being wrong...Find a project so big that you know you cannot do it unless God is helping you. Commit to it. Hang around with some impulsive types...Practice going through small doors...Make a decision that's good enough instead of perfect...Be scared. Obey God anyway. "

― John Ortberg , All the Places to Go . . . How Will You Know?: God Has Placed before You an Open Door. What Will You Do?