" One of our most vital functions is an ability to listen to the true story of our own lives. Accordingly, the central issue in this book is the conflict between the things we feel—the things our bodies register—and the things we think we ought to feel so as to comply with moral norms and standards we have internalized at a very early age. "

― Alice Miller , The Body Never Lies: The Lingering Effects of Hurtful Parenting