" When I say “you,” it is you, not this carpet, not this wall, not your child, not something else. When I say “you,” it’s just you. If it shifts to this, you can rewrite your destiny whichever way you want. Right now, what is “you” is spread out; you are not an established being, you are a scattered being. You still have to gather all this mess and put it inside. Then it becomes you. You still have not become you; you are a crowd, isn’t it? The crowd’s destiny is always predestined. Once you become an individual – the word “individual” comes from a root word meaning “indivisible” – it cannot be divided anymore; it is this. It cannot be here and there. Once you become a true individual, your destiny is yours. I want you to understand this. "

― Sadhguru , Mystic's Musings