" One of the problems you have to deal with, living with someone like that, is that they tend to gaslight you. Always making it your fault when they do something mean. Always making you feel like you don’t really see what you see. And like you’re wrong to feel what you feel. Feelings aren’t really right or wrong. They just are what they are. You’ve been living with him so long. You know him better than anybody. If you think you have reason to be scared of him, you probably do. I would say you’d be better off believing your fear. Stop trying to argue with it. "

― Catherine Ryan Hyde , Seven Perfect Things