QUOTE : How do you respond to people who push you to do more, get more, be more when you are content with who and where you are? Leo: Smile, and give them a hug. What we have to learn is that no matter how content we’ve learned to be, there will always be people who expect us to act differently, who push us or get angry with us or make us feel guilty. That’s OK. That’s the way of the world, and we can never change that. The only thing we can change is how we handle it. So I suggest learning to empathize with these people, smile, and give them a hug. It might not change how they try to push us, but it might, and more importantly, we have changed our reaction to them.