" There are many aspects of life that we cannot control. When it comes to our children, spouse, relatives, and friends, we can love them, pray for them, show them interest, but we cannot control them,
even when we have good intentions, since their happiness ultimately depends on themselves. Let them take responsibility for their choices. When we get through an illness, we develop immunity. If we protect others from illness, they may not develop proper immunity against life. "

― Haemin Sunim , Love for Imperfect Things: How to Accept Yourself in a World Striving for Perfection