" When a problem comes up in a relationship, don’t just grit your teeth and bear it. Acknowledge that the other person can be different from you, and allow them to be. Even siblings who have grown up in the same house have different viewpoints and habits. Do not just tell them to adjust to you; make room for difference. "

― Haemin Sunim , Love for Imperfect Things: How to Accept Yourself in a World Striving for Perfection