" You sacrificed your life for the sake of your children. But instead of being thankful, your children are angry that they have been living their parents' dreams rather than their own. Look back and see if you deluded yourself into believing that being obsessed with your children was a sacrifice. And consider whether your "sacrifice" did not rob your children of the opportunity to learn for themselves. "

― Haemin Sunim , Love for Imperfect Things: How to Accept Yourself in a World Striving for Perfection