" Which sounds better: a) I have a lot of stressful things going on but keep them to myself, or b) I have a lot of stressful things going on but I choose to talk about them until I ultimately work through whatever the issue is.
If you chose "b," then DING, DING, DING, you are correct, sir/madam/whatever pronoun you prefer or identify with most. "

― Connor Franta , Note to Self