QUOTE : Can I ask you something?” I asked my older, and while perhaps not wiser, more male experienced sister. “You can ask me anything, you know that, lamb. What’s up? Your man want you to do something kinky? Tie you up maybe? Spank you?” She recited off a number of naughty things, some which I’d never even heard of, but I’d definitely look them up for future reference. “No, it’s not about sex. It’s this whole overprotective crap. How do I make him see I can take care of myself?” “You can’t,” she said, turning serious.